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YES...and NO

2/19/2013

 
SPORTMOM E-votional by Janet BrownYES...and NO

Giving both a YES and NO answer to any question certainly confuses the person asking.  Part of the question may evoke a ‘yes” answer while another part requires a ‘no’ thus causing a quick yes-no answer!  This is immediately followed with a lengthy explanation as to what we mean. Oh, the challenges of a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’.


‘No’ and ‘Yes’ are words quickly said, but they need a great amount of thought before you utter them. Baltasar Gracian, Jesuit Priest in the 1600’s

Being true to our word, may require purposeful pause before putting our tongue in motion. It’s often tempting to fill an awkward silence with words when we are searching for the ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer. Giving a simple non-compromising and true response can become a habit if we are unafraid of the dreaded moment of silence.

“…with every ‘yes’ in your schedule, there is an equal and opposite ‘no’ reaction. When I said yes to another speaking engagement, I said no to another family dinner. When I said yes to another meeting, I said no to my girls’ volleyball game. When I said yes to another book tour, I said no to taking a walk with my wife.” Max Lucado

On the other hand, the importance of quick decisions are a hallmark of sports.  Saying ‘yes’ or ‘no’ in the pressure-filled moments of a competition makes the difference between success and failure when the scores are tallied. A halting decision will bring certain disaster.  Athlete’s are exceptional at making high-risk and game-changing decisions.

Jesus spoke about the use of YES and NO answers in what His “Sermon on the Mount”…


Say only yes if you mean yes, and no if you mean no. If you say more than yes or no, it is from the Evil One.. Matthew 5:37 NCV

Here we are reminded to be exact when answering questions. Speaking out of both sides of our mouths will only cause confusion.  The Apostle Paul speaks boldly of his intention in this matter…

Do you think I talk out of both sides of my mouth—a glib yes one moment, a glib no the next?  Well, you’re wrong. I try to be as true to my word as God is to his.  2 Corinthians 1:17 The Message

God is true to His Word answering our prayers with the simple ‘yes’ of things working out or the ‘no’ of closed doors. The very nature of His ‘yes’ includes a strong “in-my- time” component while His divine ‘no’ can leave us with a “you've got to be kidding” response!  Living out His will means acceptance of His ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answer.

PRAYER:  Lord, thank you for guiding me with your YES and NO answers. I want to be as true to my word as you are to yours. Let me say what I mean with a simple ‘yes‘ or ‘no’ while reflecting priorities that honor you. In Jesus Name, Amen

Blessings…as you say what you mean with simple YES and NO answers.

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Mom
2/19/2013 03:41:22 am

"O be carful little mouth what you say!" etc.
Let the Spirit lead you all the way
The Father up above, watches us in love
He will give the right word always! (Amen)


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    JANET BROWN

    As a veteran coach's wife, Janet invites you to join her in "Changing the world for Christ...one athlete at a time".Through the language of sports and life experiences, Janet uniquely exposes the character of God and His desire for "sportmoms" to WIN BIG in life. Her behind-the-bench view invites us into a world of triumphant wins and tragic personal loss.


    LIFE EXPERIENCE

    From being a mother of 2 to a spiritual mom to many, the road of life for Janet includes these hallmarks:

    - Gave her "heart to Jesus"     at 6 years old
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    - Studied Education/          Psychology at a Christian  College

    - Enjoyed earning her wings  and flying as a Flight    Attendant

    - Is the wife of Coach Dave Brown since 1967.

    - Involved in ministry to women for 30+ years including: Retreat Facilitator and speaker, Bible Study leader, National Women's Ministry Leader

    - Held an executive position in the corporate world for 35 years.

    - Developed and taught Pre-married and Marriage classes with her husband for 12 years. 

    Currently is a writer, grandmother to 4 and a coach's wife.


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